For myself, I’m a bit larger than most guys; nothing too huge or spectacular, or even absurd, none of these 10+ inches comments, just a modest 7 3/4.

Here’s the thing, there’s a variety of issues with this. First and foremost, the whole dysphoria issue where it’s kinda creepy to have a cock in the first place. I’ll confess I’m not exactly comfortable with the idea that I’m stuck with a dick, much less one of above average size. It’s a reinforcement of something being “wrong” every time I go to the washroom, have sex, masturbate, get dressed or anything else along those lines.

In some other ways, it’s kind of nice to be a bit “bigger than average”, since there is that need to somehow feel a bit of pride in a distinguishing part of one’s person as well. If I’m stuck with a cock, I may as well be happy that what I have is moderately impressive, right?

There’s some primal enjoyment, I must confess, towards being larger than my boyfriend as well. On the other hand, it’s also a guilty pleasure, one which leaves that taste of ashes in your mouth after the hormone rush dies down, when it suddenly dawns upon you a few minutes later that you were savouring something that would normally be considered an insult to someone you cared about.

There are a great deal of other issues, mental, emotional, psychological, sociological, hormonal, physical… you name it; it’s not as clean cut as “bigger is better”.

It can be both kind of arousing, and highly embarrassing to have a bigger dick than a guy. I’ll confess that there are times I’d probably have just cut it off with a knife in moments of rage and frustration, if it weren’t for the fact that I kind of need it for surgery someday later on in the future. (Ever wonder how they do that surgery? Don’t look it up. Seriously, if you want nightmares for a week about waking up in the middle of that operation, go right ahead, but I don’t advise it =P )

In any case, note that “tranny” is a pretty poor term, and more or less derogatory, like calling gay people “fags”, or black people “niggers”. Shemale, dickgirl, and so on, same thing. Some don’t mind; I don’t personally care myself, but you’re probably better off not using such terms to be on the safe side =P

This also discounts the issue of transgendered males, who were assigned female at birth, and eventually are stuck being men without dicks at all. The whole “my dick is bigger than yours” culture is kind of extra rough on them.

I dunno, I guess I’m just ranting now =P

I suppose the key thing to keep in mind is that it’s not as easy of a question as may first be thought. There’s a lot of factors that go into it. For men? Easy as pie. Biggah = bettah! WOO!

For women? Well… how many women really want a cock in the first place, and of those, how many would prefer a really big one? Given our cultural upbringing on what’s considered “appropriate” or “normal”, not to mention the whole neurological layout of the trans-brain looking for a cunt that doesn’t exist, there’s a lot of reasons a trans-girl might not be especially happy with having a dick in the first place, let alone want a bigger one. There’s also a few reasons some might, as well.

It largely comes down to personal preference, but on average, trans-women will probably not be that interested in having a bigger cock compared to regular males, since there are forces both acting for and against such, whereas for males it’s pretty much purely a one-sided argument.

In conclusion… I’m a girl with a cock. A moderately above average sized one, at that. I don’t particularly care for it, and would much rather be without entirely, but I try to tolerate it’s presence as much as possible while I’m stuck with it.

I guess, if anything, I just feel bad it didn’t go to someone who would appreciate it more than I do.