The following are Jodie’s own personal thoughts on the matter, and as such are certainly not the complete story. She hopes other TS women and those men who are in relationships with them contribute their own thoughts and experiences.

Before we look at trans-dating, may I take you out of trans-land and into cis-gendered land? Think of that stunning “Day-One” woman on this months cover of Rustler magazine? You’d like to date her yes? Now look at EVERY WOMEN YOU ENCOUNTER during the course of your typical day. How many of them could be a hot top model? Probably frak all.

See the fabulous trans-women on here and other sites? Well firstly, most trans don’t look anything like that. We actually cover the full spectrum of appearance, just as “Day-One” women do. Old, young, fat, thin, ugly, beautiful, average, (actually, a lot of average). Plus the big deal-killer for most men: We will have some remaining male characteristics. Obviously this will vary hugely in obviousness from trans person to transperson, but there is always something. Oh, just say you did date one of the top trans models. You ok with her plucking prickly hair from her jaw line, some mornings? Just asking.

Right you guys, here are some of the hard facts about us. Transsexual females are very rare. I think numbers come in at around one in six thousand people. Oh, that’s for both pre and post op transsexual females of all ages and looks. So the chances of you meeting any transsexual female, pre or post op are pretty rare. Factor in your Trans-date wish-list (in no particular order)

• We Pass (can you handle your family / friends / work colleagues knowing ‘That thing’?) This objectifies us in itself, but I’ll come back to that later.
  Very few trans women truly pass (as in 98%+ of the time)
• We Look attractive / very attractive
• We are single
• And open to the possibility of an “interaction”, from casual date to a lifetime partner

My friend, you are looking at a very tiny demographic of people you would consider dating.

Trans porn is a fabricated fantasy. In real life we have bad hair days, sometimes our skin is yuk. Oh & when we go to bed, most of the time we wear flannel snuggy pants and tops and woolen socks. The sussys are for shoots or a special treat for our partner. And partner….A high % of trans women identify as gay. That means for a lot of trans-women, unless you are female, it’s just not gonna happen!

Next, What exactly are you looking for?
“I want to date a hot shemale”
Well the first thing is that your sentence seems to show a full intent of sexually objectifying us rather than looking upon us as people.

Now early transitioners are cool about that. It’s a validation thing.
“You’re a straight guy, you want to fuck me”
“Therefore, I must be a woman”
After a while we get an internal self assurance and then neither want or seek a validation fuck. That means your desire for us, on it’s own, is meaningless.. (We get lots and lots of interested men, all the time)

So, what are you bringing to the party? I’d think about your appearance and social approach. Be interesting and engaging.

Having a transsexual history for most of us is not something we are particularly happy about. A suitor wanting to date us specifically because of that very thing we generally loath about ourselves, is just not a good thing. (It’s a bit like you saying:”You suffer from deep suicidal depression, I like that in a woman, lets date”). We see ourselves as female, which of course we are. It would be nice if a person wishes to date us for who we are as a person rather than because we are trans.

Last year, a good ts friend of mine (you will know her from some of her porn shoot pics on this site & others) played with the idea of de-transition, becoming a man again. I asked her (straight identifying) male partner of five years, what would happen to their relationship? He replied that he then would simply be in a gay male relationship. I asked my man the same question. He gave the same answer.

How many of you men could give that answer? (That’s slightly unfair as a question, for you the reader, who are just exploring the possibility of trans-dating; but bear it in mind)

Finally, Transsexual. Spot the first bit of the word. This means we are in transition. What you see may well be what you get, initially. But I guarantee you now that, six/eighteen/60 months on and this person may well only vaguely be like the person you first met. And will you be ok about dating a person, where that person rapidly changes in lots of ways. It really is very difficult for the man.

And the penis. Are you really only want to date us because we are a female with a penis? Most of us will have Sex Reassignment Surgery SRS. Will you stay with us? Or was it in the end, only about our cock?

I’ve posted this several times before. It’s a personal insight from both my male partner and my my own.

How do you actually get to meet a transsexual woman?

Most Transsexual women meet partners who know our history. Maybe they knew us before we transitioned. Maybe they “read” us. Maybe through work, where gossip outed us. Though we mostly meet though trans friendly spaces:

• be it a Tg forum /chat room,
• trans club/bar,
• or from a group of friends and friends of friends…where the suitor had the heads-up on our past, or they used to date a friend of ours who is also a Transsexual woman…
• And so on.

My man said the easiest way to date a Transsexual woman, is to interact with us on trans boards. Post on areas of common interest. Avoid sex topics. See if you click. Assess which Transsexual women are slightly deranged and which are very deranged (Accept that to a degree we are all bonkers) And private message anyone you find interesting. Later, suggest phone / social contact. If later, things move on to friendship and then romance,cool. My man wooed me for six months after our first meeting before I relented.

Oh, be prepared to put lots of time and £ or $. Think flights, hotels, food, car rental. Because of our rarity, you will probably have to put a lot of effort into travel and resulting costs. My man lives 1400 miles from me, Yep, he had to go that far just to meet for an afternoon, to see if we would be friends.

Will you make that sort of effort?

My friend who attended the Miss International Queen show and who took these pictures, wrote the following to me:

the contestant from Korea was clearly the most beautiful one, however most of the spectators applauded to the ladyboy from Thailand.
This was a big surprise to Ms Mini and even made her burst into tears.
Although it was clear she was going to win.
A ladyboy from Japan won the 1-st prize last year and of course they were not going to make it again.
The ladyboy from Thailand was weak.
But the Korean was just right.
And, of course, the black shemale was really exotic, and got her well-earned 3-rd prize.

For more information please visit these sites:

• Transgender.org
• Egale Canada

I maneuvered my car through the heavy traffic of west London. I was on my way to see Keliana, the love of my life and the most beautiful woman in the world. Work had kept Keliana and I away from each other for the last two weeks. Longing to see my darling lent urgency to my trip. Keliana and I had planned to have a late dinner and well we would see where the night would lead us.

I screeched to a halt in front of Keliana’s apartment block. I jumped out of my car and bounded up the stairs. Keliana’s apartment is on the fifth floor, but I wasn’t going to wait for the elevator when it was quicker to take the stairs.

I stopped outside Keliana’s door to catch my breath and have enough time to compose myself. I rang the doorbell and from deep inside the apartment I could hear Keliana’s sweet “hiya darling. Come right in.” My heart fairly leapt at the sound of her voice. I turned the door knob and entered. I removed my suit jacket and hung it on the hook beside the door and then kicked my slipped my shoes off and pushed them to the side.

I could see straight down the hallway through the front room to where Keliana was standing on the balcony. She fair took my breath away. Keliana is the most gorgeous woman in the world and tonight she exceeded even her normal flawless beauty. She was fashionably dressed in a short loose fitting black dress that stopped just above her mid-thigh. The dress revealed a hint of cleavage from her beautiful soft breasts. Her dress was cut low in the back with a single thin silver chain running up her spine and joined the narrow cloth straps, from the front, at her neck.

I walked towards Keliana. Even at this distance I could see Keliana’s sparkling eyes and dazzling smile. Her long dark silky hair was shimmering in the half light from inside her apartment. I could sense more than see the tanned smooth skin of her neck and arms.

I reached Keliana and she almost jumped into my arms. My lips met her soft dreamy kissable lips and we locked together. Keliana’s tongue probed my lips and I parted them. She pushed her tongue into my mouth and I sucked on it and twisted my tongue around hers and I probed her mouth. We clung to each other as we kissed. My arms tightened around Keliana’s soft sensuous body and Keliana gripped me tighter.

Our lips hungered for each other. Keliana lifted her left leg and wrapped it around behind my and back in between my legs. We finally broke our kiss. Our chests were heaving. We kissed several more quick light kisses. The taste of Keliana’s sweet dreamy lips lingered on mine. I held Keliana loosely now and basked in her glow. I gazed into her gorgeous face. She is so achingly beautiful. I kissed her several more times. Each kiss was more passionate than the last. Keliana responded as she clung to me.

I ran my hands lightly up and down Keliana’s back. My hands cupped her soft yet firm tushy. I pulled Keliana into me. I could feel her clitty aroused and pushing against me. Our lips locked together again. I used my right hand to slowly pull Keliana’s dress up. In just a few seconds my hand was caressing the soft, warm, bare skin of Keliana’s sexy tushy.

Keliana felt the warm night air on her skin and she kissed me more fiercely. I kissed her hard, our tongues twisting and probing as my hands caressed her body. The street noises faded into the background and soon disappeared altogether. I only had eyes for Keliana. I only had ears for her sweet voice.

I kept my right hand on Keliana’s firm warm tushy while I used my left hand to explore her front. To my pleasant surprise Keliana wasn’t wearing panties. I took her girly cock in my hand and lightly stroked up and down. Keliana moaned and kissed me harder. I pulled her more tightly to me and slipped my right hand between her tushy cheeks. My middle finger massaged her rosebud. Keliana moaned and then let out a little whimper. Encouraged I slipped my finger into her. Keliana whimpered more loudly and broke our kiss.

She pulled her head back far enough to look at me. Her eyes were twinkling and there was a devilish smile on her face. Keliana wiggled her tushy and squeezed down on my finger that was in her. I slowly moved my finger in and out of her. I felt Keliana’s clitty get harder and I squeezed harder as I stroked her. Keliana’s breathing became shallower.

Keliana gave me a long tongue filled kiss as she loosened my tie and unbuttoned my shirt. I pulled Keliana’s dress higher until it was above her hips. I broke our kiss this time and then started kissing down Keliana’s chin and then her neck. I paused at her cleavage to kiss and lick between her breasts. My finger continued to thrust in and out of her. I started to kiss my way lower when I felt my shirt slip off me. Keliana had managed to get my shirt almost off and I hadn’t noticed. I withdrew my finger from her and pushed my shirt all the way off and cast it aside.

I worked my way down across Keliana’s flat tummy kissing along the outside of her dress. Keliana now caressed me on the sides and top of my head. I got to the tip of Keliana’s fully erect ladystick and flicked my tongue out to lick it. I licked all around the head of her shaft. Keliana was moaning now. I teased her some more as I took just the tip of her ladycock into my mouth.

I worked my finger in and out of Keliana’s tushy gradually increasing the rhythm. I took Keliana’s lady love tool all the way into my mouth. She was whimpering loudly now. I was sure anyone on the street would hear us, but I wasn’t going to stop now. My darling needed the release and I was going to make sure she got it. I held my right hand still now as I sucked hard on her girly cock. Keliana was now thrusting her hips to meet my mouth on the down stroke.

I was moving my head back and forth very fast now. Keliana was alternately whimpering and moaning. Suddenly she let out a long low moan. I felt her clitty swell and then pulse and she shot her girly cream into my eager mouth. She spurted twice more and then slumped against the side of the balcony. Her breathing gradually returned to normal. I released her ladycock.

I stood up running both hands lightly along each side of Keliana and lifting her dress at the same time. Keliana raised her arms and I slipped her dress up and over her head and then her arms. Keliana was now standing in front of me in all of her naked glory. I carefully set her dress aside on the balcony table and then took Keliana in my arms. Her skin was burning hot, soft, and sensual against my own skin.

I kissed Keliana lightly once and embraced her tightly. I loosened my arms and then spun Keliana around. My cock was now raging hard and straining to be released. I kissed Keliana on the back of her neck and then down along her spine. I kissed all the way to firm toned tushy. I kissed each cheek and then used my hands to spread her tushy. I kissed and then licked Keliana’s rosebud. I heard her gasp and then moan as my tongue entered her. I pushed my tongue in deeper. I then flicked my tongue in and out of Keliana. She was whimpering as I tongue fucked her. My left hand snaked around in front of Keliana and grasped her girly stick. She was fully erect again. I stroked her a couple of times and then suddenly stood up.

Keliana gasped when she felt my tongue leave her. She looked over her shoulder at me. I kissed the back of Keliana’s neck. She knew what was coming next and she smiled at me. I unzipped my pants with one hand and caressed her tummy and then her breasts with my other hand. I positioned my rock hard cock at the entrance to her love tunnel and pushed gently, releasing the pressure as I felt the very tip start to spread her rosebud. I pushed again letting just a bit more of my cock slip in before withdrawing.

I was teasing Keliana and enjoying the sensation of feeling her tushy squeezing against my cock. I pushed again and Keliana growing impatient with my teasing pushed back against me. My cock slipped half way into Keliana. I paused and so did Keliana. We were both surprised as well as pleased. Keliana wiggled her tushy. I put both arms around my darling and held her close to me. I slid all the way into my sweetie as I pulled her back against me.

I paused again to let Keliana adjust to my girth. I then started to slowly stroke in and out of Keliana’s love tunnel. Keliana matched my thrusts as she pushed her sexy tushy back against me. The feeling was so warm and loving. I bent forward again and kissed my darling on her neck.

I now began to thrust harder and faster. Keliana still matched me thrust for thrust. She was moaning loudly again. I glanced over the balcony at the street and I could barely make out someone looking up towards us trying to figure out what the noise was and where it was coming from. I went back to concentrating on my sweetheart. I was thrusting fast and breathing deeply.

I was on the verge of orgasming. I gave a few more really hard thrusts. Keliana moaned deep and long again. The tips of my toes started to tingle and the sensation moved up through my legs to deep within me. Another hard thrust, my cock pulsed, and I spurted deep into my darling. Keliana felt my cock twitch. She squeezed as hard as she could and my cock spurted again and again. I went on orgasming and Keliana was sighing now and holding herself tightly against me.

My orgasm finally subsided and then stopped. I slumped against Keliana holding her tightly and lightly nibbling her neck and the back of her ears. I felt my cock go flaccid and then slowly slip out of Keliana.

Keliana felt my cock leave her. She turned around in my arms and stood on her tiptoes to kiss me. Her eyes were sparkling. I was still breathing heavily. Keliana leaned her head against my chest and then without saying a word stepped away from me and grabbed me by my hand. She led me back inside her apartment and into the bedroom. It looked like our late dinner was now going to be a late brunch tomorrow morning.

Michael varied his rhythm on Rachael. He would suck hard and fast and then he would slow down and suck her gently and slowly. Rachael’s tongue was working magic on Gina’s pussy. Rachael loved to lick pussy and Gina’s was the nicest that she had ever sucked. In no time Gina felt her clit tingling and waves of pleasure were pulsing deep within her. Rachael’s moans were coming loudly now as Michael sucked harder on her cock. Gina gave a long moan of deep pleasure as she felt herself orgasm. Her pussy lips were quivering and Rachael was licking even harder exciting her to new heights.

Gina took her mouth off Michael’s cock and looked up just in time to see Rachael stiffen and her cock pulse and then she shot a jet of cum into Michael’s eager mouth. Michael was surprised at first and then tried to swallow Rachael’s load. He couldn’t keep up and Gina watched as a Rachael’s cum began to leak out around the corners of Michael’s mouth. Gina was incredibly turned on and another orgasm washed through her as Rachael’s expert tongue worked over her pussy.

Gina watched Michael swallowing Rachael’s load. Each time Rachael’s cock pulsed Gina felt her pussy quiver. Rachael’s orgasm subsided and she quit licking Gina’s pussy. Gina was left gasping. Michael’s cock was still rock hard and leaking pre-cum in a steady stream. Gina was about to take Michael’s cock into her mouth again when Rachael told her to leave it and to lay on her back.

Rachael’s tone of voice made her comply immediately. Michael looked up surprised both and Rachael’s command and in disappointment at not feeling Gina on him. Michael loved when Gina sucked his cock and Gina in turn loved sucking Michael’s cock. Rachael felt Michael take his mouth off her cock. She told Michael to suck her hard again.

Michael eagerly took Rachael’s cock in his mouth again. Michael enjoys licking pussy and now he found that he liked sucking ladycock just as much. Rachael’s sighs told Michael that he was pleasing her. He had Rachael achingly hard again. Rachael’s sighs and whimpers told Michael that he was doing everything right.

Michael was really working on Rachael’s cock and enjoying every second of it when Rachael suddenly pulled out of his mouth. Michael was surprised. Rachael rolled over separated Gina’s legs. She parted Gina’s thighs and poised herself above Gina. Rachael’s cock was just barely touching Gina’s pussy. Gina felt the velvety smoothness of a cock at the entrance to her tunnel and she tried to thrust her hips up. Gina was hornier than ever and wanted a cock in her pussy. She needed a cock in her pussy. Rachael rose up with Gina, teasing her.

Rachael made Gina beg for her cock. Gina was shaking and quivering with anticipation. Then Rachael slowly lowered herself onto Gina and her cock slowly slipped into Gina’s pussy. Gina felt Rachael’s cock sink all the way into her and she wrapped her legs around Rachael’s legs to hold Rachael into her. Michael watched as Rachael stroked into Gina. He was more turned on than ever now. The sight of a gorgeous woman fucking his gorgeous wife had him stroking his cock.

Rachael saw Michael pleasuring himself and ordered Michael to get behind her and lick her tushy as she fucked Gina. Michael scrambled into position behind Rachael and plunged right into Rachael’s pert firm tushy. He savoured Rachael’s rosebud as his tongue flicked in and out of her. Rachael sighed and lowered herself onto Gina. She clamped her lips onto Gina’s. Gina wrapped her legs more tightly around Rachael and pushed back against the Rachael’s thrusts.

Gina moaned loudly as she fiercely kissed Rachael. Their tongues twisted together in passion. Gina felt another orgasm building within her. The feeling was incredible; Gina had never cum this many times in such a short time. Rachael thrust harder and faster. Gina was leaking lubrication in a steady stream onto the sheets. She thrust hard back at Rachael. Suddenly Rachael tensed and her cock quivered. Rachael groaned and moaned at the same time and then she shot a big load deep into Gina. Rachael quit moving as her cock pulsed three times and then a fourth time and each time she shot a big spurt of cum into Gina. Michael felt the change in rhythm and licked and kissed more vigorously on Rachael’s tushy.

Rachael collapsed on top of Gina, her cock sliding all the way into Gina. The two women clung to one another. They were breathing heavily and their chests were heaving. Gradually their breathing returned to normal. Rachael slowly withdrew from Gina. She rolled off of Gina.

Rachael’s sperm was slowly leaking out of Gina’s pussy. Rachael looked at Michael and told him to suck her hard again. Michael dived right in. He quickly took Rachael’s cock in his mouth. He let Rachael’s cock out of his mouth and started licking her from the tip to the base of her cock. He cleaned off Rachael’s cum and Gina’s juices from Rachael’s cock. Never had Gina’s pussy juices tasted so good. Never had he been so turned on licking his wife’s pussy lubrication.

Michael bobbed his head up and down along Rachael’s cock. He was enjoying the velvety smooth firmness of her. Michael got Rachael fully erect again. She pulled her cock out of his mouth and told Michael to lick her cum out of Gina. Michael couldn’t wait. He loved eating his wife’s pussy and tonight he was getting Rachael’s creamy treat along with Gina’s wonderful flavour.

Michael got on his knees between Gina’s legs and lowered his head to her pussy. With his head down his ass was up. He felt something probing between his cheeks. He took a quick look back and saw that Rachael was on her knees behind him and her hands were working along his butt. Rachael moved in close to him. Michael suddenly felt something warm and big against his butt hole. He suddenly realized that it was Rachael’s cock that he was feeling.

Rachael gave a little push and the tip of cock slipped into Michael. Michael gave a little wiggle. His virgin ass was being invaded and he loved the feeling. He licked harder and faster in Gina’s pussy. Gina was enjoying Michael’s tongue and felt another orgasm starting to build. Rachael pushed again and her cock slipped a little deeper into Michael. She paused waiting for Michael to adjust to her. Gina’s orgasm was rapidly approaching now. Her breathing came deep and then shallow. Suddenly she moaned then whimpered and then screamed as wave after wave of pleasure swept through her. Michael licked faster as he felt Gina shake with her orgasm.

Rachael pushed again and she was now fully into Michael. She paused again to let Michael adjust to the feeling of her. Michael was enjoying the feeling of Rachael in him. He backed against Rachael urging her to fuck him. Rachael started to slowly thrust in and out of Michael. He responded by meeting her thrusts.

Rachael stroked a few more times and then told Michael to lower himself onto Gina. Michael did as he was told and his cock slipped all the way into Gina’s pussy until he was buried in her. Rachael in turn settled onto Michael with her weight. Michael waited for Rachael to start again so that she could control the pace.

Rachael started stroking again. Michael pushed back against Rachael as she thrust forward and then he would plunge all the way back into Gina. They kept up the pace gradually going faster. The three of them felt their orgasm building. Michael pushed back hard against Rachael. The feeling of a cock in his as was most pleasurable. Gina was in turn deriving great pleasure from Michael’s extra strong thrusts. Michael was the first to orgasm. His cock spasmed and he shot his load deep into Gina. Gina felt Michael’s sperm splashing deep into her and she orgasmed. Rachael gave two more thrusts and she too came. Michael kept spurting into Gina. He thought that he would never stop. The pleasure of his orgasm was intensified with the feeling of Gina orgasming into him.

Rachael was the first to pull out. She rolled over onto her back and then Michael pulled out of Gina and rolled over so that he was between Gina and Rachael. He put his arms both ladies and held them close. Both Gina and Rachael rested their heads on Michael’s chest. The three of them just lay letting their breathing return to normal and reliving their experience. It was the amazing sex that any of them had ever had.

Michael started to think of Gina’s firm sexy tushy and he felt his cock stirring. Both Gina and Rachael noticed Michael reawakening. They looked at Michael and then each other. They knew that this was only the beginning of a wonderful night and the start of a beautiful friendship and adventure.

Perhaps Gina, Rachael, and Michael will have more adventures.

After doing the bend over and tease thing this Japanese new half will sit and spread her legs. That allows us to look between them and see her sexy black and white panties. The design is so delicate and delicious that it will spark a fire of arousal in your brain that runs all the way down your spine to your cock. You’ll be thinking about what she’s hiding behind her panties too and she’s nice enough to give us a little ladyboy show later in the set. First she’s going to show her ladyboy tits though and those are really perky and pretty so it’s fun to watch.

Her nipples are hard because she’s aroused and her lips are pursed because she’s feeling pure arousal. She wants to fuck and she wants you to be the one to deliver the cock. She seems to get hard without even touching her ladyboy cock. That must be nice. Her dick is cute and sexy and would be so much fun to play with thanks to the perfect size. She is all about turning you on and she is so good at it.

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For more information please visit the sites:
Transgender.org
Egale Canada

Head of the Psychiatric Special Outpatient Clinic for Children and Adolescents with Identity Disorder, Dr Bernd Meyenburg states ‘Very few youth psychiatrists have any experience with transsexual developments. The families wander from one psychiatrist to the next. I was always against such operations on children so young but after seeing how happy one of my patients was and how well adjusted after returning from having the operation abroad while still a teenager – I realized that in some cases it is the right decision’. This has been his remarks on Kim Petras, the boy who felt that he was in a wrong body since the age of two, now transformed to a young girl and popular pop singer.

‘I know that because of my past people will always bring up the subject, I can’t get away from it. But I hope that one day I might be better known for something else like my music.’ says Kim.