Whenever you walk on the streets of Bangkok, Pattaya, Phuket or which ever beautiful city / island Thailand has to offer, your eyes will meet a world in which you want to dissolve yourself in. Amongst all the beautiful ladies waiting on or asking for a good time, you will find something that will totally blow your mind… You can spot them up from a distance because they really love carrying themselves in a majestic way, turning heads around and standing up from all other girls. You know it in your heart that you will want one of them (or more) to stand by your sight, make your nights white as day and your days intense as an explosion. But what is there to know about dating a ladyboy?
First off, there’s the cultural differences. If you are a foreigner it’s most certainly that you are used to the lifestyle accustomed to your home country, and since in Thailand you are a visitor, you might think they will indulge you in everything. And even thought Thai people are very hospitable, it’s not the case. They do follow their own rules and believes. You can’t act like you own anyone and do as you please, even if at first they smile and show you consent. Just be civil and act like you would do anywhere else. Here’s a tip that will help you in your relationship: Attempting to learn about the Thai culture and lifestyle, language and perhaps religion is often considered a big plus by your ladyboy partner.
Another important rule: If you are looking for a ladyboy to spend time with, you should under no circumstances ask them if they are ladyboys. It will be very clear which ones are the ladyboys and which ones are girls, and most of them (speaking about 99,9% of the time) will not lie about their true gender. The Thailand myth “waking up with a ladyboy next to your side thinking it was girl” is absolutely not true unless you become uncontrollably drunk, are cross eyed and you were pissing yourself in the barstool. In any case, remember that these babes can make you feel like it’s the first time in your life you ever had so much fun and it’s not just a fantasy coming true, it’s actually overcoming one.
Expectations, yours and theirs
On your first encounter with a ladyboy you must resist the urge to treat her like you would treat an easy girl. You will get punched if you don’t show some respect. These girls are not shy and they can and will defend themselves on the spot, making you feel like hell if you mess it up. Be natural but not cocky, play nice and ask her about places she likes to go. You may find she’s more comfortable in surroundings she’s used too, rather than taking her to a fancy restaurant most ladyboys don’t appreciate. Get to know her a bit, show some interest. After you both feel comfortable with each other, chances will fly in your favor from all the corners. Anything you want will happen, no matter how kinky it is. The thing is, it will be very difficult to choose, since just on a simple walk in Pattaya, Phuket, and Bangkok will be an endless shear of insanely hot ladyboys reaching their hand towards you and inviting you to… well, a drink or “something”. As long as you just let it flow and do not act like a jack, you’ll be fine.
Traveling with a Ladyboy
If you have something more in mind than just a hookup, you can offer your partner out to travel anywhere in Thailand, spending time together like a real couple (and who knows, maybe that you will become one day). Keep in mind that it’s very normal in a Thai relationship that the partner with the best economical background provides for his/her significant other. It will make her feel right at home, and you get the best of both worlds, a ladyboy babe at your side making your time worth spending without the fuss and mood swings to drive you crazy. Thai society keeps an open mind about ladyboys and ladyboy relationships in general so you should never feel embarrassed to grab her by the hand and act like she’s your partner.
Long distance relationships with a Ladyboy
Thinking of a long-distance relationship with a ladyboy? It won’t be easy since they are rather active creatures and they don’t usually settle for a guy right away. But, you may find the one who wins your heart and wants to spend the rest of her days in your presence. The problem is that even if you talk on the phone, video chat and do anything to keep the relationship flowing from your home country, but you can never be too sure that she’s keeping her panties on just for you. As they are very initiative and always looking to provide for themselves and their families, they may request a small monthly fee to keep the relationship alive. This is very common practice for relationships between foreign men and Thai ladyboys. Often this is where lovers find themselves at cross roads, just another one of those cultural difference which may be hard to overcome.
Since you will find out it’s so easy to fall in love with a ladyboy who gives you everything on the spot, serving you with the beauty of a woman you may consider getting married together at one point in the relationship. This is actually may be tricky (legally speaking), because by Thai law a ladyboy is still considered a male and same-sex marriages in Thailand are not allowed. How ever, it’s not illegal to live together as partners, and as earlier mentioned Thai society is very accepting of these type of special relationships.
To not dive into the legal aspect of same-sex marriages, in fact the answer is YES you can get married to your ladyboy partner. It may not be legal by law, but it’s often done and adored by many Thai ladyboy lovers & embraced in Thai culture. You can choose to have a romantic traditional wedding ceremony (often in the home village of your partner), along with the family, friends to expose your love and make your dreams come true for everyone to see.
The easy way in
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If you want to throw a helping hand to the people out there who want to join in this amazing world of dating ladyboys, please share your experiences with us in a comment. What to do, what not to do, where, when and so on.