Everyone knows that sex feels great. Part of what feels so great is the fact of knowing that your partner is totally into you and visualizing the two of you together. After spending all day together and playing little cat and mouse games you can assure that the sex will be out of this world. Just as there are physical preparations that make your encounter special, there are also mental preparations that you can make.
First, you can start by revving up your engine by preparing your mind. You can do this by thinking about your encounter, imagining positions and how good you will feel. Imagine the setting, smells and the soft music playing in the background. Imagine how you will talk to your partner, what you will do, and what she will say. This can not only get you in the mood, but also get you ready for a great experience.
Visualize the curtains drawn and the fragrant smell of roses that you purchased for her as a surprise. Close your eyes and picture yourself with your partner with no limits or boundaries. You are free to do and act as you wish. Will you start with a drink or a nice hot soak in the tub? Is there music? If so what kind, is it soft and relaxing or wild in hopes the sex will be the same? Will your partner wear lingerie? Imagine how sexy the both of you will feel and look.
Visualization is a great way to stimulate your brain and prepare you for a wonderful intimate encounter. We all have good imaginations and when we daydream about our fantasies it can really take your sexual experience to another level. Playing cat and mouse games can really get you going as well. So what are cat and mouse games? These are small gestures, touches and behaviors during the day to stimulate your sensuality. It may be a soft touch or grab of your partner or leaning over and whispering sweet nothings into her ear. A sensuous smile or a lick of the lips can set your partner on fire. Anything that lets your partner knows that you are thinking of them will do the trick.
Express what you are going to do to them later or a new position that you would like to try. Play footsie under the table during lunch in a crowded restaurant, anything that stimulates a positive relationship between you and your partner. These things get you thinking about later and keep you excited. Excitement and the “cant wait any longer” attitude allows for an explosive sexual encounter.
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